Like clay in the potter’s hands, our children remain in God’s hands. Wherever they are, He’s there. And He’s always at work in them,
shaping them through the influence of other people, circumstances… US.
Has anyone ever tried to change you? How well did that go?
Our job is not to change our children into who we want them to be. Our role is to love them, point them to Christ, and participate with God as He works His perfect plan for them.
Have you ever tried to control this process? I have.
Since they were little, I’ve wanted each of our kids to have a special friend. There’s nothing wrong with this desire; only, God’s plan for developing their character may include seasons where there is no friend.
As our family has moved to different cities, our children have changed schools 4 times, each time beginning the friend process all over again. Not fun. We’ve spent many an afternoon and weekend together. But I knew they missed old friends or just wanted to meet someone to do things with – besides a sibling, Terrell or me. I prayed, I made suggestions…
Isaiah 45.9 says: “Does the clay say to the potter, ‘What are you making?'” I know the right answer, but honestly, sometimes I’d wonder what God was up to… because my desire or my plan made so much sense!
Eventually, I would vent my frustration to God (usually having a pity party first). Then I would begin to recall the truths about WHO God is: He is sovereign; He is always at work; He is faithful.
Today, our kids’ closest relationships are within our family as we’ve spent so much time together. But most importantly, they’ve learned through their experiences that one Friend is always with them.
There is no way I could have made these things happen. I am so grateful to God for His way. I’m glad He’s the Potter and I’m just clay.